Conversation is an art form, and many people consider themselves terrible artists. Many people lack the skills or the willingness to practice or even to just play and create without the need for a perfect outcome. You see?
I notice people are often bad at listening. Not that they aren’t hearing you, but that they aren’t letting each word sink in and have real tangible meaning that evokes the same emotion in them that you experienced in relation to whatever the experience or opinion it is you are trying to relay. Words seem to have little meaning to so many people. I do not feel this way. I value words greatly.