I just ephipanized was that if you really are having to wait a long time, it’s probably not for you/ the wrong route. Personally. Like long as doctors apt wait times, scam! Long ass text replies like days, weeks, etc.. People who like aren’t ready when you are. Schools that require you to apply an entire YEAR ahead of time!!. Restaurants that somehow don’t have their shit together enough to readably calculate their perceptive busy levels to staff needed and kitchen space needed in order to get your food to you in a reasonable amount of time. People looking to rent out a room for like the following year, or in a few months rather than next month.
I think when things are meant to be, they kind of just happen naturally and swiftly because they are meant to. Even if they don’t last. It doesn’t feel as icky as the weird forcing yourself to wait for things that just aren’t worth the wait in the end!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!