• Mars opp/square moon (won’t fit intimately)
  • Sun square Saturn (what you see for yourself in life is not in alignment. Will require sacrifice of one’s preferences)
  • Moon Opp/square PLUTO (jealous and/or suspicious of them/you. Messy) she also said not conjunct which I could see…
  • Moon conjunction Pluto (power struggles, by triggering Pluto person’s need for control— however it can be handled correctly. If both can manage the intensity, the bond can be deep, transformative, and unforgettable) like I can handle scorpio moons in small doses haha
  • Mercury Opp/square moon (however I’m not including square because I have this aspect in my own chart so I think it cancels it out.)
  • Moon Opp/square Venus (won’t be enough on its own, but polyamory ok
  • Wrong time wrong place = Venus op/square Saturn
  • Venus Uranus any = keeping each other at a distance
  • 12th house=> that planet will be ignored/stepped on/delusional about it/breadcrumbed/rejected/hiding (especially YANG planets: sun/mars etc) cancer house person wants to avoid ignore it altogether. Elephant in the room maybe
  • 8th house=> one person is being controlled/ other person is controlling. Trauma issues brought up/ ptsd. Pisces
  • Mars square Pluto
  • Probably not opposite rising sign = confusing stressful
  • Saturn square Mercury=> random no-contact periods, mentally draining, etc.
  • Mars square Neptune=> one idolizes the other while they bask in the ego boost, unrealistic dynamics, obsessiveness, gets messy (I think Neptune idolizes the mars person)
  • Mercury square Mercury, one wants to debate while the other just wants silence. One aggressive one silent, thinking the other is stupid possibly. BOOM! Libra mercuries hahaha. growing together to reach understanding when supported by others respects.
  • Mercury square moon: mercury person nagging/combative, moon person feels unloved/harassed/annoyed, chronic misinterpretation.
  • Mercury opposite/square Neptune: mercury feels Neptune is gaslighting, Neptune trying to stay positive, mercury is disruptive to the fantasy of Neptune, hopes too high for Neptune person they can’t communicate them, let down.
  • Saturn square/opposite any personal planets: feels like teacher and bad student. Saturn colder, while Venus wants to be loving, mars wants to be active, moon feels shut out, sun feels oppressive/limits your shine
  • Mars opposition square something: Mars person feels so mean. But it’s something you can get over unless it’s mars and moon. Bully. Triggering hard to get over.
  • Pluto opp/square moon like unintentionally triggering moon person, and manipulating you into uncomfortable situations, Pluto feels dependent on the moon person’s emotional reactions. Psychological warfare/ intensity.
  • Pluto conjunct is like they’re on you to transform.
  • Venus Pluto opp/square can seem charismatic + chemistry at first but Pluto becomes controlling manipulative and Venus person isn’t committing/following through. Horrible falling out. Toxic obsessive
  • North node and a personal planet conjunct, motivates other to: sun - achieve, moon = emotionally mature. Feeling like as the NN you’re giving the momentum.
  • SN aspects without grounding Saturn aspects: apathy, or not fixing issues, familiar in a draining way, trust, soul sucking (all as the planet person) the SN is confused why the planet person resents you or is so reactive to you.
  • Neptune on ASC. Neptune person tries to be ideal, other feels like they don’t know the Neptune person at all. Foggy. IC= they feel their dreams are aligned, but ultimately the Neptune person realizes they actually want differently.
  • Anything Neptune: spiritual mayhem, self delusion, dishonesty/confusion around dreams/ideals/goals
Mine to avoid:
  • Mars in cancer, Aries, or Capricorn lol for sure!
  • Mars in Aquarius or Leo will be cat and mouse if it’s early degree or bad if late degree
  • Virgo mars lacks spark
  • Moon in (ohhhh?!) Gemini, Sagittarius, Pisces. Ahahahha
  • Sun in Sagittarius and Gemini yup (long term)
  • Saturn in Libra or Aries (wait that’s funny 1996-98 ~99 some) Taurus Aquarius and Leo
  • Moon in taurus ya! Or Aquarius or Leo yeah pretty much so. Double.
  • PLUTO in Capricorn, Aries or cancer
  • Mercury in Aries
  • Cancer Moon
  • Venus in Aries, Cancer, Capricorn, Virgo, Gemini, Sagittarius
  • Mercury cannot be square/Opp my Venus I think! So not mercury ins Aquarius, Taurus or Leo.
  • Pisces rising
Good moons left: Aries, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Capricorn. Conjunction Sextile and trine my moon-> Gemini mars, libra mars, Sagittarius Mars… 😉General positive planets in Gemini, Pisces, Sagittarius for sexual tension Saturn trine Venus helps timing: Venus in Scorpio, cancer. Saturn in Pisces, Cancer. First house positive planets add to wanting relationship and malefic equal blocking the desire for the relationship. So for me Leo stuff pulls me in but not necessarily them. Unless they have first house same as one of my benefic planets According to astrologer synastry….
  • if you have a Taurus, Leo or Aquarius moon you will not have a long lasting relationship with anybody born from roughly 1984-1995. And shouldn’t. More or less
  • Because having your moon square or opposite your partners PLUTO is a bad aspect.
  • If you have a Capricorn Sun you will not last in a relationship with people born from Apr  7, 1996, to Jun  9, 1998 and Oct 25, 1998, to Feb 28, 1999
  • Because Saturn square Sun is also a bad synastry aspect.
  • Those born under
ABOVE ALL ELSE THE MOONS MUST BE HAPPY FOR BOTH OF YOU …. Eek But basically they’d have to have a Virgo moon or Capricorn Moon. Bahahaha Squares=friction Oppositions= hypocrisy Soooo if you have anything that’s too powerful or consumes the rest unchecked, having these aspects in others could help tame you if you let it. POSITIVE SYNASTRY:
    • 4th house synastry
    • Tension amongst mars signs (opposite, square etc.) Less so the same or harmonious mars signs = for spicier sex.
    • Mars square Venus = cat/mouse
    • Trine: Venus feels seen and mars can attain the Venus and what they want. (Venus in Cap/Taurus, mars in Canc/Pisc) .. Mars being predator, Venus being prey.
    • Mars conjunct Venus= spark, fun, butterflies, physical touch
    • Trine or sextile rising sign possibly
    • **Moon trine/sextile Venus = soft love/safety, just get each other, flow, romance, emotional support.
    • Mercury trine mercury=> instant mental connection, so humor
    • Venus Trine Saturn=> Venus person feels protected and valued, Saturn person feels sense of loyalty and devotion. Last past obstacles
    • Saturn trine anything= structure and stability. Endurance (esp Venus or moon=> scorpio, canc)
    • Pluto in trine= mutual intensity and harmonious transformation. Respectful dedication
    • Jupiter sextile or trine Venus, conjunct probably too… (Venus=> sag, Aquarius, libra, Leo, aries.) (Jupiter=> Scorpio, Cancer, Pisces, Capricorn, Virgo)
    • Mars trine sextile Saturn (mars=> water signs, Cap, Taurus)
    • Venus in first house for attraction, not longevity (1st house person feels seen/ benefits more than the Venus person)
    • Jupiter conjunct rising (Jupiter feels taught by first house, learning absorbing a lot of wisdom from rising sign whofeels they’re being given time attention love etc. grateful for each other. )
    • Moon conjunction rising (moon feels the rising sign embodies what they want to feel, safe. Rising sign feels their guard is down.)
    • Sun conjunct moon (when sun masculine and moon feminine) sun-> goals, moon-> feels.
    • Venus trine Venus = love language compatibility. (Canc/pisc Venus)
    • Mars trine mars= how you get things done is similar. (Cap/taurus mars)
    • Sun on rising= rising idealizing the sun person, sun person feels ego is stroked.
    • 1st(attraction/shallow), 3rd(friends), 5th(romantic, adventurous), 7th(contractual) , 10th(goals), 11th (social surface level) houses
    • Mars in the fourth house which essentially is like mars conjunct moon, mars person wants to impregnate the moon person (not literally) sexual attraction for the mars toward the fourth house.
**So moons in Pisces, Capricorn, Virgo, or Crab Venus in Gemini, Aquarius, Leo, Sagittarius Honestly they probably need to have both since it gets canceled out from my other placements. Venus Saturn thing: Venus in cancer or scorpio like me haha Saturn in Cancer or Pisces like me haha Saturn aspects work better when the Saturn person is accepting the role of wise-person, teacher, guide, etc…
  • 8th house= depth early intensity, finance discussions
  • 2nd= boring/financial grounding, neutral.
  • 6th= coworkers, details, less fun, nagging, health topics
  • 4th= family and home environment
  • 10th= professional/cool tone
  • 12th= triggering or ongoing mental health topics.
Semi-sextile: being open minded at first, then eventually coming to the point where we decide will we go through the dark to the end of this journey, or climb the mountain… hard to make definitive judgmental calls along the way, rather only works to focus on the end goal. Sticking it out can be terrifying, but will have reward at the “end” OR The second sign is always feeling purposeful and fulfilled and the first sign is feeling helped/supported. Quincunx signs have skills/information/tactics/knowledge/know-how that support the purpose/goals of the original sign. Wherein it’s likely the LATER sign learns from the EARLIER sign!!