Lilith in Aries and libra I cannot… sorry they need to examine their shadow and speak to it and allow themself not to be afraid of me, to give people a chance to show them safety. Not be stuck in a nine of wands fear of the past.
Lilith in Cancer I can do, with some distance emotionally. Maybe even physically.
Leo Lilith yes and no… depends on the day etc. works better is I truly fall into them gushy.
Gemini Lilith I’m super good with, I actually got chills. But it’s not enough to just have that in your chart. I’m talking about helping people, not dating them or sleeping together or whatever other relationships.
I feel like sag lilith is the easiest to relate to for me, and it can work as long as they see that it is. Again, whole chart determines relationship further. I can be healing if they engage well and trust me.
Lilith in Virgo makes me uneasy. I can’t heal them, we could be fiends but they need to have somebody else handling their physical needs/sensual side.
Pisces limit, again I am not the best to heal them except for trying to show examples of how I deal with things inside myself.
Capricorn Lilith might benefit from being in my orbit and being close but not directly me trying to help, so I’d have to relax on that. Not come across authoritative.
I suppose I’ve never met an Aquarius lilith and it sounds like they wouldn’t connect well at all… like the most reclusive, unwilling to form bonds.
Also I spot Lilith conjunct sun sign very easily. obviously.
hypothesis: the planet conjunct the lilith is how you heal it, or the house/sign it’s in.
venus=> love with that sign
10th house gemin=> through higher purpose career of exchanging something words/good or using hands
sun=> ego